Top 5 Things I learned in NYC: 16 months
Thursday, May 21st, 2009I have been struggling lately about my posts and what you guys actually care about and I have been reviewing my analytics to make sure I am giving you info you actually want. Enter me thinking about what I know and what is worth sharing. So I decided to reflect on the last 16 months and examine what I have learned from this crazy town. So here it is…straight from the dome.
1. NYC is a numbers game
2. Trust your instincts
3. Never call yourself an expert
4. Tell your story
5. Truth Truth Truth
1. NYC is a numbers game: Over the last year, I have realized that the romance of the New York dream is only realized with effort. Whether you are selling gogs or trying to be a super model, being seen in NYC is key. You don’t need to be the smartest guy in the room. All you need to do is show up and engage. The more events, shows, and meetings you can set up the better. There are so many opportunities in this town that only through trial and error can you realize where you fit.
2. Trust your instincts: I had a sense when I first moved out that NYC was this dream place where all the best hung out and no one ever screwed up. It was like the epicenter for the over-achiever. Because of that, I used to second guess my instincts but I have learned to overcome this. NYC is no different than any other place. you can’t be afraid of failure or afraid to be wrong. There will always be some one better than you….but there will aslo always be some one worse.
3. Never call yourself an expert: Dylan Boyd told me this and its true. No one in cares to hear you call yourself an expert. Some one else needs to call you an expert. Its like being a ninja…does a ninja need to say he or she is a ninja?
4. Tell your story: This is an offshoot of #1. Going to the event or show is not enough. You gotta learn how to tell your story. As lame or boring as it maybe, everyone is unique. So find what makes you different and run with it.
5. Truth/Truth/Truth: This is an offshoot of #4. Tell your story but don’t lie. If you don’t lie you won’t have to remember anything. Try telling different stories or making totally outrageous promises…it eats you alive, esepcially out here. Don’t be the big man on campus, just tell the truth and it will set you free. This includes knowing when to say no.
In honor of my New York education…take a listen to a joint that helped me fall in love with this city in the first place. eROI NYC be slicker this year fo sho.










